Hey y’all! I’m Toi, the woman behind Pretty Resourceful. And let me just say this: if you're in the middle of a life shift, a personal rebuild, or a deep breath you’ve just been holding way too long…welcome. You’re in the right place.

“You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated.”

—Maya Angelou

As a licensed REALTOR®, an Atlanta native, a community magazine publisher, and a full-time mom of four, I know a thing or two about starting over. This space is where life, healing, and resourcefulness come together. To help women like us rebuild in softness, not stress.

The Real Behind the Rebuild
In my childhood, I survived domestic abuse, molestation, and the trauma of witnessing the sexual abuse of several young family members by others within our own family at a very young age myself. I also moved schools 13 times, constantly adjusting to new environments and instability. More recently, I faced one of the most difficult chapters of my life, a two-year custody battle that ended with me parenting my children alone and losing nearly everything that once felt secure. Again and again, I’ve rebuilt my life here in Metro Atlanta, not with a roadmap, and definitely without any guidance, but with faith, resilience, and relentless determination. Still, I keep showing up. Smiling. Creating. Surviving. But the truth is, I don’t always want to be strong. I want to be soft and supported.

That’s why I created Pretty Resourceful, to give women real tools for real life. Whether it's through local business support, storytelling in our Atlanta community magazine, or sharing my journey, I believe softness can still be strategic.

Motherhood, Money & Mindset
My daily routine swings between leading marketing campaigns for Metro Atlanta small businesses and juggling the demands of carpooling four kids. Some moments I’m negotiating real estate contracts and publishing community features and other moments I’m crying in my mobile office, wondering if I’m doing enough.

But I’ve learned that being resourceful isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present.

This is what local marketing and life strategy look like when you’re rebuilding from scratch, with authenticity, vulnerability, and vision. I’m here to show you it’s possible to create a life that includes both income and inner peace.

What You’ll Find Here
This blog is where local entrepreneurship, community building, and personal healing intersect. Expect to see:

• My authentic healing journey: the highs, the lows, and the lessons learned.

• Practical mindset techniques for business and life success.

• Actionable strategies for business planning and boosting productivity.

• Your guide to Metro Atlanta's best: events, small businesses, and things to do.

Whether you're a business owner, a mother who could use some extra support, or if you're just seeking personal growth, this is your resource hub. Real, relevant, and rooted in community.

💬 Let’s Stay Connected
If you've ever felt like you're marketing your business while life is life-ing, or building a future with both kids and chaos in tow, I see you. This blog isn't just content...it's connection.

Comment below or reach out if you’re ready to:

• Collaborate on community events

• Share your story in our local publication

• Learn how to advertise your business in our Atlanta magazine

• Find a supportive REALTOR® to guide your next move

Whatever season you're in, know that you don’t have to rebuild alone.

Stay soft. Stay resourceful. Stay you.

xx Toi